by Christy Aloisio | Feb 5, 2015 | Intimacy, Marriage, Uncategorized
One marital myth that I think many people hear about is that once you get married, you stop having sex. This marital myth or fact is a little bit harder to answer because this can be really different for each couple. I have couples I have worked with that sex does not... by Javan | Jan 13, 2015 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy
What took down the gloriously engineered Titanic ship wasn’t the massive iceberg that was visible. It was the smaller, below water, out of sight, non-visible iceberg, below that sunk the great ship. That’s why there’s the saying, “What you... by Nancy | Jan 12, 2015 | Affairs, Uncategorized
Healing trust damage is a topic that is pretty common in my office. For example, how does one overcome the trust damage that occurs when a spouse has an affair? What if your family member or significant other is a perpetual liar? What if someone you love suffers... by Javan | Nov 22, 2014 | Abandonment, Codependent, Relationships, Self-Help
You CAN change the cycle of pain you came from..Rewrite your story for hope, for change, for unconditional love. What triggers you into a state of fear? What pushes your buttons? Where do you need to change for others? The best villain and hero in any movie knows this... by Javan | Nov 7, 2014 | Abandonment, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy
If you read part one of abandonment, you have a bit of an understanding of how abandonment feelings are created in your life. What this looks like in current life, as an adult, is different and varies for each person.Our personal hurts and pains, basically our...