by Karen | Apr 12, 2018 | Anger
RETHINKING ANGER MANAGEMENT One of the most common calls we receive at Healing Hearts revolves around anger management. During a first meeting with a client who has anger issues, I often explain anger management is not needed. Rather, we need to work on anger... by Danielle | Nov 28, 2017 | Self-Help
Does this sound like you?: “How long is this going to take?” “I’m busy.” “I don’t have TIME for this.” If so, you’re not alone. We have a lot to do and not a lot of time to do it in. We’re tired, rushed, and chasing the clock. We’re answering emails, while flipping... by Kathy | Oct 31, 2017 | Communication
“The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” Wow! Did George Bernard Shaw really hit the nail on the head with this quote! Couples frequently cite communication as their primary problem when they first enter counseling. ... by Nancy | Apr 10, 2016 | Anger, Differentiation, Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships, Uncategorized
If you can pardon the somewhat vulgar insinuation, I promise I have a point to my choice for the title of this blog. I just brewed up some Wild Mountain Blueberry coffee and am curled up by the fireplace with a warm blanket and my sweet kitty Bart, (ahhh!) and... by Nancy | Mar 21, 2016 | Codependent, Counterdependent, Differentiation, Individual Therapy, Relationships, Uncategorized
By request…today we are going to talk about a way of thinking, a paradigm that will help navigate the waters of relationship with folks that may not always be all that safe. This is a common question I have from clients that are working so hard to develop good...