by Kathy | Mar 23, 2016 | Abandonment, Addiction, Affairs, Anger, Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Separation, Uncategorized
Abandonment issues? Wondering for sure if you have them or not? You don’t have to have been left in a basket on a church doorstep in order to have abandonment issues. I myself didn’t even know I had abandonment until I was 35 years old, but when I learned more about... by Nancy | Mar 21, 2016 | Codependent, Counterdependent, Differentiation, Individual Therapy, Relationships, Uncategorized
By request…today we are going to talk about a way of thinking, a paradigm that will help navigate the waters of relationship with folks that may not always be all that safe. This is a common question I have from clients that are working so hard to develop good... by Javan | Mar 11, 2016 | Codependent, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy
Toxic relationships can include family, friends, co-workers, intimate partners, spouses, just about anyone. Even an acquaintance. Though toxic relationships tend to seem okay on the surface, they are often destructive. You can identify a toxic relationship with some... by Nancy | Mar 7, 2016 | Codependent, Individual Therapy, Relationships, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Control is a really common topic in my office. One very simplistic definition of anxiety is “an over-focus on things that may or may not happen,” in other words…thinking too much about things we can’t control, although we might be under the... by Javan | Feb 16, 2016 | Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships
Love and connection…that’s what clients want that come in for marriage counseling. The multiple divorces and remarriages are evidence of the lack of love people feel in relationships. So why does it seem so difficult to have something that seems simple and...