by Nancy | Mar 21, 2016 | Codependent, Counterdependent, Differentiation, Individual Therapy, Relationships, Uncategorized
By request…today we are going to talk about a way of thinking, a paradigm that will help navigate the waters of relationship with folks that may not always be all that safe. This is a common question I have from clients that are working so hard to develop good... by Nancy | Feb 26, 2016 | Affairs, Divorce, Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships, Separation, Uncategorized
When we think about marital love, we think about commitment and wanting that union to go the distance. We want to think and believe that our love when we’re married will never fade or go away. With a divorce rate at 50% or more in our current culture, we know... by Javan | Feb 16, 2016 | Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships
Love and connection…that’s what clients want that come in for marriage counseling. The multiple divorces and remarriages are evidence of the lack of love people feel in relationships. So why does it seem so difficult to have something that seems simple and... by Javan | Jan 26, 2016 | Affairs, Communication, Relationships
Have you felt strongly about something when you’re really irritated, but then forget about that same thing like it was no big deal? Or have a bad thing happen that put you in a rage but then thought, “Never mind, I don’t want to deal with that again!... by Kathy | Jan 19, 2016 | Abandonment, Anger, Anxiety, Codependent, Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Relationships, Shame, Uncategorized
Why do some arguments never end? Why do you need to win? Why do you just have to get the other person to see it your way? These are the very things that keep many couples caught in endless, and senseless battles. It eventually makes us associate our loved one with...