by Nancy | Feb 26, 2016 | Affairs, Divorce, Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships, Separation, Uncategorized
When we think about marital love, we think about commitment and wanting that union to go the distance. We want to think and believe that our love when we’re married will never fade or go away. With a divorce rate at 50% or more in our current culture, we know... by Javan | Feb 16, 2016 | Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships
Love and connection…that’s what clients want that come in for marriage counseling. The multiple divorces and remarriages are evidence of the lack of love people feel in relationships. So why does it seem so difficult to have something that seems simple and... by Nancy | Feb 3, 2016 | Depression, Shame, Uncategorized
While it may seem that these words are synonyms, there is a difference between guilt and shame. A very important difference, actually. I just made myself some wild mountain blueberry coffee, so join me for a minute, hopefully with your favorite beverage, and a warm... by Javan | Jan 26, 2016 | Affairs, Communication, Relationships
Have you felt strongly about something when you’re really irritated, but then forget about that same thing like it was no big deal? Or have a bad thing happen that put you in a rage but then thought, “Never mind, I don’t want to deal with that again!... by Karen | Jan 17, 2016 | Codependent, Differentiation, Relationships, Uncategorized
It is a bright moment in a person’s life when the realization comes that there are choices in relationships and the form, substance and significance of those relationships. We all have the ability and right to decide who is front and center in our lives. One of...