by Javan | Jan 30, 2020 | Communication, Relationships
Blame Is Ugly The Blame Game is a trap to keep you in a lower position in life. Blaming says, “there’s nothing I can do about how I feel or respond to this scenario. I have no control, so I’m a victim.” It also perpetuates the “she or he is the bad guy, villain, and... by Nancy | Apr 12, 2015 | Abandonment, Anger, Anxiety, Codependent, Individual Therapy, Relationships, Uncategorized
How do you discuss tough topics? If you are able to self-differentiate, not define yourself based on another person’s actions or words, then you are able to hear another perspective, understand another perspective, and not take offense to another perspective.... by Javan | Nov 8, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Do you ever wonder how your spouse seemed one way when you first met but then turned out to be a totally different person after a few years?? At first, you can’t imagine how this sweet, lovely person could ever be hurtful or angry. Then, after a few years,... by Javan | Oct 10, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
How comfortable are you with being yourself to your partner? It seems hard to imagine that after living with someone for years, that we wouldn’t be ourselves. However, in marriage counseling, clients often express behaviors and communications that indicate...