Do You Know Your “Little Girl”?

Do you know your little girl?  I’m not talking about your daughter, I’m talking about the tender, sweet, vulnerable little girl that lives inside you as a woman. . . For us to live a healthy and full life, we’ve got to get in touch with that little girl, for she is...

The Relationship Is Not The Destination

Does your relationship need a little tweaking?  Perhaps it needs a major overhaul? Most people are drawn into counseling by a relationship that is not going the way they had planned.  They want to “fix” the relationship.  That is understandable.  We all want a good,...

Emotional Maturity: Are You 3 or 43?

How emotionally mature are you?  We would all like to believe that we are mature, rational adults, but if we are honest with ourselves, we’ve all got some emotional immaturity in us.  Let me illustrate the difference. . . Immature:  I snap at my partner because I feel...

Abandonment: A Famine of the Soul

I heard the perfect descriptive phrase this week . . . “famine of the soul”.  Wow.  I love it!  It perfectly describes abandonment.  Many people spend most of their lives achingly in pursuit of something to satiate a gnawing, constant hunger, but nothing seems to feed...