Abandonment Issues

Abandonment issues are all over the world. Everyone experiences loss at some point or another in their lives. But the abandonment issues I am discussing today, on my video, and in this week’s  blog are deeper and more pervasive than the stereotypical “I...

How Therapy Works

Marital, individual, couples or family therapy is designed to help you identify personal struggles and make healthy changes. Therapy is not just about a painful childhood. Many of my clients have what they call “a normal childhood.” Some of my clients have...

Shame is Good! What?

What is shame? How does it work? Is it something to avoid or learn from? Do you find yourself thinking any of the following? I have to prove myself to others I have to hide who I am on this inside to others I can’t handle my insecurities I feel guilty and...

“Truth about Abandonment!” Part II

“So, what happens next? How does my abandonment work in my marriage?” What happens next is our defenses kick into high gear. As adults, in our relationships, we can feel enraged, jealous, insecure, uncertain, anxious, and then blame something or someone...