Can vs Can’t Control

Can vs Can’t Control

Do you focus on what you CAN control, or what you CAN’T? A common theme that I have been seeing in my clients, friends, family and even myself is putting focus on things that we can’t control. During the Covid-19 pandemic, for example, it may feel like we...

The Pain Of Codependence

If you have codependence, you know it can be painful.  But WHY?  Where does the pain come from and how can we make it stop?  In my opinion, the deepest pain of codependence comes from 2 sources.  Ironically, the first source of pain is from our surface attempts to...

Your Thoughts Make Your Reality

The stories we tell ourselves influence how we behave, decisions we make, and how we see others and ourselves. What if thoughts we have, make a reality we don’t like? Ask yourself these questions and quickly note the answers: What do you think to yourself when...