Should I Stay or Should I Go?

One of the more frequent issues I see in my office is a spouse or even a couple together trying to decide if they should stay married or move on and proceed with a divorce. Many times that is what brings them to me, is to get a third party opinion or direction of what...

Enmeshment 101

Most people would be a little surprised to hear a podcast about being to close in a marriage (see Hot Mess Radio’s podcast on Enmeshment at the end of this blog!). What’s wrong with that? Close is good! Believe it or not, being too close in a marriage can...

The Fantasy of Marriage

“My knight in shining armour is going to come and take me away from my family that doesn’t care for me.” “My wife will listen to me and meet my needs the way my family never did.” “My husband will respect me sexually, and I will not...