by Morgan | Jan 1, 2020 | Communication, Marriage
Most clients I have met have heard of The Five Love Languages (by Dr. Gary Chapman), and many even know their own preferences. That being said, some struggle to apply this knowledge in day to day life. It is common for us to tend toward caring for others in the same... by Kathy | Jan 7, 2015 | Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships, Separation, Uncategorized
It’s a valid question. Does marriage counseling actually work? As a marriage counselor, you would expect my answer to be a resounding, “Yes!”, and to an extent it is, but I’m going to go with the safer answer . . “It depends.” Marriage counseling is wonderfully... by Kathy | Nov 24, 2013 | Marriage
I’ve often said that anger is not about the other person, and that is true, but what does that mean? How do you get control of out of control anger? Intense anger is really a result of a poorly differentiated “self”. Let me explain . . . Self-differentiation is... by Javan | Sep 6, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Finding out about an affair is devastating. As the fear of the ultimate abandonment comes to life, the storm of self-blame, insecurity, and self-doubt can spin into oblivion. Sometimes even a bit of temporary insanity can be expected. Affairs can spin a... by Javan | Aug 18, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Life can be very demanding. Between work, kids, spouse, bills, planning, doing….all of it. Relationships take a lot of work. Marriage takes a ton of work. Have you wondered why your partner stopped listening to you? Over time, relationships can become...