by Kathy | Mar 16, 2014 | Marriage
Are you a victim? Many people think, “Yes!”, because others have wronged them. And that may be true, however, read on! You may be more of a victim of a victim mentality than of the people and circumstances around you! A victim mentality is a common dysfunctional... by Kathy | Mar 9, 2014 | Marriage
Henry Cloud was once asked “What is the most important lesson we need to teach our children?” He answered very simply, “How to deal with loss.” This very wise and profound statement struck a chord with me. As someone who witnesses people dealing with grief and loss... by Javan | Jan 10, 2014 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Growing up, my parents were my whole world. Their approval and reactions to my choices mattered the most. Eventually, my school teachers and friends joined my circle of intimacy. As a little girl, the approval of others helped mold my life choices. Pretty standard for... by Karen | Dec 29, 2013 | Grief, Uncategorized
There is a form of grief which is difficult for many people to acknowledge or accept. This is the grief associated with unborn children. The parent of the unborn child is often unable to allow herself or himself the freedom to grieve. This parent falls prey to social... by Karen | Dec 1, 2013 | Divorce, Grief
Holiday stress associated with family gatherings is a common topic of conversation and the subject of many jokes. A client brought me a package of cocktail napkins with an awkward family photo and the caption I’ll be home for Christmas (and in therapy the day after)....