by Kathy | Apr 29, 2020 | Communication, Shame
Rewriting history is when someone recounts certain events, but they spin or twist the facts around usually so that they are the victim of the story instead of having any fault in it. The more times they tell the story, the truer the twisted version of the story... by Kathy | Mar 23, 2016 | Abandonment, Addiction, Affairs, Anger, Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Separation, Uncategorized
Abandonment issues? Wondering for sure if you have them or not? You don’t have to have been left in a basket on a church doorstep in order to have abandonment issues. I myself didn’t even know I had abandonment until I was 35 years old, but when I learned more about... by Kathy | Jan 14, 2015 | Depression, Shame, Uncategorized
If you have shame – you know, that nagging, nasty inner voice that tells you everything you haven’t done, everything you should’ve done differently, and how you otherwise just aren’t good enough? – then you know how draining it is. Ugh. Figuring... by Javan | Nov 7, 2014 | Abandonment, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy
If you read part one of abandonment, you have a bit of an understanding of how abandonment feelings are created in your life. What this looks like in current life, as an adult, is different and varies for each person.Our personal hurts and pains, basically our...