Intimacy Builder: Validation

Validation simply means acknowledging, and giving importance to, the worldview of another. Validation is a powerful tool in a therapist’s toolbag, and can disarm anxiety and depressive symptoms by giving hope, connection, and understanding. Why, though, does it work...

Intimacy Hide & Seek

I thought intimacy was easy.  You’re just supposed to love and be loved, right?  Intimacy isn’t as much about love as it is about really “knowing” a person and about letting someone else “know” you.  That is some rough emotional terrain!  Some people play it safe and...