Why Can’t You Just Love Me?

Love and connection…that’s what clients want that come in for marriage counseling. The multiple divorces and remarriages are evidence of the lack of love people feel in relationships. So why does it seem so difficult to have something that seems simple and...

Intimacy Hide & Seek

I thought intimacy was easy.  You’re just supposed to love and be loved, right?  Intimacy isn’t as much about love as it is about really “knowing” a person and about letting someone else “know” you.  That is some rough emotional terrain!  Some people play it safe and...