Are You In A No-Win Argument?

Nothing drives me crazier than being in a no-win argument.  What’s worse is when I don’t even know that I’m in one, but I keep arguing thinking I will get my point heard!  Here’s how to spot when you are in a no-win argument, and what to do next. When you are up...

How Cookies Damage Your Relationship

This week I made an interesting connection about how cookies damage our relationships!  These are not your standard chocolate chip or snickerdoodle variety, however, these cookies are a bit different, but they have a significant impact on our relationships! The kind...

What Most Relationships Lack

Relationships that are in turmoil lack an important ingredient.  Fortunately, what they are lacking can be developed, but it is not easy!  What do  most relationships lack?  Emotional maturity. Let me sum up the definition of emotional maturity this way:  the ability...

Are You Addicted To Your Relationship?

Are you addicted to your relationship?  Do you spend an inordinate amount of time . . . Thinking about your partner? Talking about them? Trying to please them? Being angry at them? Having mock arguments with them while you are alone? Focusing on how to fix the...

What Do You Need From Your Spouse?

Do you really know what you need from your spouse?  I think we all have an idea what we need, but most of us are woefully out of touch with what our essential needs really are. Period. Example: You know that when you walk in the door at the end of the day and your...