by Javan | Sep 6, 2012 | Marital Therapy, Uncategorized
After an affair, it’s hard to imagine that hope, healing, and trust could exist in any way in your relationship. From a recovery perspective, the reality of the state of the marriage is different from the way you, as the significant other who was cheated on, see it.... by Javan | Apr 5, 2012 | Marital Therapy, Uncategorized
“So, what happens next? How does my abandonment work in my marriage?” What happens next is our defenses kick into high gear. As adults, in our relationships, we can feel enraged, jealous, insecure, uncertain, anxious, and then blame something or someone... by Javan | Mar 19, 2012 | Marital Therapy, Uncategorized
Dealing with someone you love who feels distant, uncommitted, and is possibly having an affair can be gut wrenching and painful. The sting of betrayal, the lousy levels of intimacy, and the all around detachment is the last thing you thought you would end up with,...