by Kathy | Feb 16, 2015 | Abandonment, Affairs, Anger, Depression, Divorce, Grief, Shame, Uncategorized
When hardship happens in your life, how do you handle it? Do you metaphorically throw yourself down on the floor and have a kicking, screaming tantrum? Or do you accept it as part of life, push through it and grow in the process? Most of us would like to be able to... by Nancy | Feb 12, 2015 | Addiction, Affairs, Marriage, Uncategorized
We’ve heard all the main arguments and reasons to not watch pornography: because it objectifies people, it can be addictive, it’s morally wrong, etc. As we take note of the increased usage in our culture today, however, it would appear that these are not good enough... 
by Christy Aloisio | Feb 12, 2015 | Affairs
“The only reason this marriage would end is if you cheated on me.” This or some version of this is something most people say before they walk down the aisle. Even if it is not actually said out loud to the other person, many people think this before they take the... by Kathy | Feb 8, 2015 | Self-Help
Let’s be real. Nobody really wants to have to go to counseling anyway. There are plenty more fun and interesting things tugging at our To Do Lists . . .but if you have to go, how do you get in and get out as fast as possible? The simple answer is . . . you become a... by Nancy | Feb 7, 2015 | Communication, Marital Therapy, Relationships
I work with couples regularly who are stuck in the power struggle. They fight with each other over which one is going to act and behave according to the other’s worldview. It sounds something like this “I know how the world works, and if you would just get on...