by Javan | Oct 15, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Last week I wrote about not being true to your motives and intentions with your loved ones. I gave a few examples of how this “being not your true self” shows up in your family and in your marriage. Today I’ll be going into this shadow version of... by Javan | Apr 28, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Do you feel like your husband doesn’t understand you or do what you need? Do you feel disappointed or deeply hurt? Most people have needs and wants of their loved ones. When these needs are unmet, the pain can build and lead to resentment and huge fights or... by Javan | Nov 9, 2012 | Marital Therapy, Uncategorized
Your recovery is about you and recognizing that you are not defined by the things that happen to you. Your recovery is about being separate, having a self, (self-identity) from the things that happen around you. Your recovery is not about wanting to change others, but...