by Nancy | Jan 31, 2015 | Shame, Uncategorized
Today we are going to look at what procrastination and perfectionism have to do with each other. Do you have procrastination tendencies, like me? Do you wish you could stop, and just find the motivation to get the job done already? Maybe you are a perfectionist and... by Kathy | Feb 9, 2014 | Abandonment, Addiction, Affairs, Marriage
I had an amazing session this week with a client who was just beginning to see, and talk about, something people all over the world are plagued with every single day! I see it as the source of addiction. John Bradshaw called it the “fracture of the soul”. Imagine a... by Kathy | Sep 16, 2012 | Marriage
Still wondering why you can’t get change to occur in your life? Maybe you’re not disgusted with yourself enough yet! Change will only occur when where you are at is more painful than getting where you need or want to go. It is not until you get truly and... by Kathy | Apr 8, 2012 | Addiction, Affairs, Communication, Marriage, Relationships
I had a few spectacular moments of clarity this week! I witnessed someone being very short with their elderly parent for what seemed like no reason other than impatience. Less than 30 minutes later, I felt myself getting agitated at my own mother for something... by Kathy | Mar 4, 2012 | Marriage
I always knew my mother loved me unconditionally – and for that I will be forever grateful (thanks, Mom!) This did not appear to be the case, however, with my stepfather. I felt he measured my success as a person in relation to what he strove for himself...