5 Signs You May Have a Sexual Addiction

5 Signs You May Have a Sexual Addiction

Unfortunately, I continue to see more and more clients in my office who are struggling with sexual addiction. . . here are 5 signs you may have a sexual addiction. Even though sexual addiction is still not recognized as an official diagnosis in the diagnostic...
What to Expect if Your Spouse Has Had an Affair

What to Expect if Your Spouse Has Had an Affair

  What should you expect when you find out your spouse or significant other has had an affair?  Your life has been turned upside down. One minute life seems normal, everything seems okay. The next minute your life is shattered. Life as you know it is completely...

Pornography: The Effects

We’ve heard all the main arguments and reasons to not watch pornography: because it objectifies people, it can be addictive, it’s morally wrong, etc. As we take note of the increased usage in our culture today, however, it would appear that these are not good enough...

Shame Fractures The Soul!

I had an amazing session this week with a client who was just beginning to see, and talk about, something people all over the world are plagued with every single day!  I see it as the source of addiction.  John Bradshaw called it the “fracture of the soul”. Imagine a...

Porn Ponderings

She thinks it’s cheating, he thinks it’s no big deal.  Neither are right.  The truth lies somewhere in the middle.  Honestly speaking, porn creates a lot of clients for counselors.  Since the widespread popularity of the internet, the availability and...