2 Things Wrecking Our Marriages

What’s wrecking our  marriages?  I find these 2 traits in varying quantities in nearly every couple that enters my office!  They usually come as a package and when both parties have an extreme case of both, the marriage is pretty much doomed unless they see it and...

2 Codependent Words I Hate

There are 2 codependent words that I have learned to hate – “have to”!  These 2 words are spoken with great passion by codependents the world over!  They “have to” take forgotten  lunch money to their kid at school.  They “have to” do extra work on the project because...

A Mature Kind Of Love

What kind of love do you have for your significant other?  We trade the “L” word, but what does the concept of love really mean?  I think the kind of love we all want is a mature kind of love, but what most of us know how to do is really a quite immature form of love!...

Marriage Counseling Is A Temporary Patch

Marriage counseling is supposed to fix marriages, isn’t it?  Well, not exactly.  In my humble opinion, marriage counseling is just a temporary patch. When a couple comes in and they are experiencing problems, focusing on the marriage and getting the marriage back to...