The Relationship Is Not The Destination

Does your relationship need a little tweaking?  Perhaps it needs a major overhaul? Most people are drawn into counseling by a relationship that is not going the way they had planned.  They want to “fix” the relationship.  That is understandable.  We all want a good,...

Your Spouse Is A Gift To You

What did you get married for?  Did you expect your partner would love you unconditionally for all time?  That’s what most of us planned on when we entered our marital contract.  So what happens following the wedding day bliss that causes so much turmoil? What most of...

Split Up Or Stay Together?

We all get in relationships thinking we will never split up, but when problems hit and the possibility of parting ways is considered we are usually in panic mode.  I want to address a common question that comes up in my office regularly. . . Should I stay with them? ...