What’s Your Anger Telling You?

Everybody gets angry.  It is a normal human emotion that we all have to deal with, but anger gets a bad rap.  Most of us see it as a bad, destructive thing, but our anger is actually trying to tell us something!  If we know what we are doing, understanding our anger...

How To End An Argument

The tension is so thick you could cut it with a knife.  You  may not even be speaking to (or even looking at) one another, so how do you go about ending an argument without losing your dignity? It all comes down to pride.  Most of us have way too much pride and that...

Are You In A No-Win Argument?

Nothing drives me crazier than being in a no-win argument.  What’s worse is when I don’t even know that I’m in one, but I keep arguing thinking I will get my point heard!  Here’s how to spot when you are in a no-win argument, and what to do next. When you are up...

What Most Relationships Lack

Relationships that are in turmoil lack an important ingredient.  Fortunately, what they are lacking can be developed, but it is not easy!  What do  most relationships lack?  Emotional maturity. Let me sum up the definition of emotional maturity this way:  the ability...