How Badly Do You Want Changes In Your Life?

Still wondering why you can’t get change to occur in your life?  Maybe you’re not disgusted with yourself enough yet!  Change will only occur when where you are at is more painful than getting where you need or want to go.   It is not until you get truly and...

I Feel Pain, What’d You Do?

Are you guilty of something I like to call I Feel Pain, What’d You Do? The idea is that if you’re feeling some kind of discomfort, someone must have done something to cause it!  This is not a conscious thought, but more of an instant, somewhat irrational, knee jerk...

The Vicious Triangle

We have finally come to the last characteristic of codependency, being passive in a relationship. Often feelings of being wronged or used; also called being “victimy” come with this trait. Feeling victimized in a relationship is the worst issue for a...