by Kathy | Jul 14, 2013 | Marriage
What’s wrecking our marriages? I find these 2 traits in varying quantities in nearly every couple that enters my office! They usually come as a package and when both parties have an extreme case of both, the marriage is pretty much doomed unless they see it and... by Kathy | Jun 16, 2013 | Marriage
There is a common thread amongst most of the women that I speak to. Some of you may hear it and disagree, but I challenge you to dig deep into the recesses of your soul and see if maybe the shoe fits. I think most all women secretly long to be taken care of. Think... by Kathy | Feb 17, 2013 | Marriage
Do you “test” your relationships? Testing is a primitive way to see if we are loved. Basically the Tester (I’ll call them ‘Needy One’) feels insecure, unloved, etc., and they ‘test’ the people in their lives to see if they are loved enough. Sometimes it is very... by Kathy | Sep 30, 2012 | Marriage
Does your relationship need a little tweaking? Perhaps it needs a major overhaul? Most people are drawn into counseling by a relationship that is not going the way they had planned. They want to “fix” the relationship. That is understandable. We all want a good,... by Kathy | Sep 23, 2012 | Marriage
How do you deal with the loneliness in your life? “What loneliness?”, you ask? The loneliness you are masking when you are constantly texting, surfing the net, facebooking, instagramming, pinteresting, playing games (Words With Friends, anyone?),...