What Would You Say To Yourself?

If you could go back in time, say 10, 20, or 30 years, what would you say to yourself?  You’ve lived through some rough stuff since then.  You’ve gained wisdom from life experience that cannot be learned any better way than through living it.  You know things now that...

Pin The Tail On The Donkey

Are you sick of not getting your needs met?  Do you feel like you have been screaming at the top of your lungs, but your partner claims to have no idea what you want from them?  Do you feel hopeless that this equation will ever right itself?  Let me take a...

Stuffing & Suffering

Are you a Stuffer?  When something bad or unpleasant happens, do you dismiss it, minimize it, or just quit talking about it?  Maybe you try to talk about it, but, when met with resistance from your partner, you just give up?  Or, do you just avoid bringing up things...

Porn Ponderings

She thinks it’s cheating, he thinks it’s no big deal.  Neither are right.  The truth lies somewhere in the middle.  Honestly speaking, porn creates a lot of clients for counselors.  Since the widespread popularity of the internet, the availability and...

Reflection Reflections

She catches her reflection in the window.  “How appropriate,” she thinks, “I’m barely visible.”  “Where did I go?  I used to have ideas, thoughts, beliefs, opinions, interests of my own.  Where did my spark go? Where is my passion...