{"id":3609,"date":"1970-01-01T00:00:00","date_gmt":"1970-01-01T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/house-cleaning\/"},"modified":"2020-05-11T20:48:49","modified_gmt":"2020-05-11T20:48:49","slug":"house-cleaning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/house-cleaning\/","title":{"rendered":"House Cleaning"},"content":{"rendered":"

Wow, my house was filthy!\u00a0 We had company coming to our house for a visit, so I began to do a few things in preparation.\u00a0 Our house is usually kept pretty clean, so I didn’t think there was much to do – until I began, that is!\u00a0 Suddenly, looking at my house through someone else’s<\/em> eyes instead of my own, I saw something completely different than what I had been looking at and walking past every single day!<\/p>\n

Isn’t it funny how we can be completely content with something, until we happen to look upon it from another angle?\u00a0 I see people doing this with their marriages all the time.\u00a0 People go through their lives, day after day, doing what they do –\u00a0 until something happens that forces them to widen their scope.\u00a0 What does your marriage look like from the outside?\u00a0 What if someone was watching you interact with your spouse after a hard day at work?\u00a0 Would you pass the ‘white glove’ test?\u00a0 Or would you need a good house cleaning?\u00a0 What about how you respond to your kids?\u00a0 Your boss?\u00a0 Your siblings? Your pets?<\/p>\n

Many people naively think they are doing fine because there isn’t any conflict.\u00a0 Or, they are comfortable with conflict, so they see it as just part of being in a relationship.\u00a0 Never mind that their spouse is NOT comfortable with it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Wow, my house was filthy!\u00a0 We had company coming to our house for a visit, so I began to do a few things in preparation.\u00a0 Our house is usually kept pretty clean, so I didn’t think there was much to do – until I began, that is!\u00a0 Suddenly, looking at my house through someone else’s […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[50],"class_list":["post-3609","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3609","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3609"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3609\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4236,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3609\/revisions\/4236"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3609"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3609"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3609"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}