{"id":3612,"date":"2012-11-11T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2012-11-11T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/depression-is-a-choice\/"},"modified":"2020-05-11T20:48:50","modified_gmt":"2020-05-11T20:48:50","slug":"depression-is-a-choice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/depression-is-a-choice\/","title":{"rendered":"Depression Is A Choice!"},"content":{"rendered":"

This one might get me into trouble, but I just have to say it. . . Depression is a Choice!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Now, before you get all up in arms, please know that I am fully aware there is a biological, chemical component to depression ~ for some people.\u00a0 But our society is just way too full of chronically depressed people and most of us can cure our depression with a simple choice!<\/p>\n

It is true.\u00a0 Each day, we get to choose our attitudes, our outlook, and even our mood.\u00a0 When we step outside, we can choose to notice the sunshine, the colors, feel the grass on our feet, hear the crispness of the leaves \u2013 OR \u2013 we can see that the trees are dying, winter is coming, the gutters need repaired, and be reminded how the economy has devalued the house!<\/p>\n

You may not like what I\u2019m saying, but please<\/em><\/strong> keep reading!\u00a0 I know it is not quite that simple to cure depression!<\/p>\n

Naturally, having this choice assumes that you are not currently dealing with significant, recent losses like death, divorce, a cancer diagnosis, dying parents, etc. \u00a0in your life.\u00a0 Of course, some people are facing these things and they need time to grieve and deal with the tidal waves of emotions associated with such losses.\u00a0 I am not talking about them today, in fact, a period of depression for them is normal.\u00a0 I am referring to the people who seem to approach every little hurdle or set-back as if it were a major trauma, people who have sustained a great loss and then nurse it for years, or the people who have just nestled into their depression and are camped there. . . seemingly for life!<\/p>\n

The choice I\u2019m referring to \u00a0is a matter of training your brain.\u00a0 You can literally train your brain to constantly look at the world and see only the deficiencies and completely overlook the benefits!<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0 They are called neural pathways and we have all been developing them our whole lives!\u00a0 Think about it. . . the more we practice something – say riding a bike or learning to dance – the better we get at it.\u00a0 That is because we develop a \u2018road\u2019 between not<\/em><\/strong> knowing how to do something, and doing it with ease!<\/p>\n

The brain is an amazing organ, however.\u00a0 When we have created a fabulous, well-paved interstate in our brain that has us only looking at the negative things in our lives and feeling depressed all the time, we can choose to build a new road!\u00a0 Road construction is annoying, labor intensive, and time consuming, however and that is why most people just keep using their old, well traveled roads.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m saying is, if you want to change your outlook and cure your depression, you need to know it will require some work!\u00a0 Start by forcing yourself to notice one or two good things about your life each day.\u00a0 Next, make yourself fill up an entire sheet of paper with things that you are thankful for (it may take a few days to come up with a list that long!)\u00a0 Basically, stop<\/em><\/strong> focusing on what you don\u2019t have and start<\/em><\/strong> focusing on what you do have!\u00a0 As you do these things, you will have created a path.\u00a0 The more you do things like this, a road will begin to develop.\u00a0 And if you keep forcing yourself to look for more and more positive things, you will eventually create a wonderful highway of positivity!\u00a0 Your old negative interstate will still be there, but with little \u2018traffic\u2019, it will begin to deteriorate and, it will be much easier for you to just take the new positive expressway!<\/p>\n

Look, I know depression is an awful, awful thing to deal with.\u00a0 You can take a pill and it will help you feel better, but it doesn\u2019t solve the problem long term.\u00a0 When we wake up each day, we can nurse our depression, or<\/em><\/strong> we can point our gaze towards what IS good in life, and begin to build a new road.\u00a0 Which road are you going to take today?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This one might get me into trouble, but I just have to say it. . . Depression is a Choice! Now, before you get all up in arms, please know that I am fully aware there is a biological, chemical component to depression ~ for some people.\u00a0 But our society is just way too full […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3612","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-marriage"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3612","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3612"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3612\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4239,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3612\/revisions\/4239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3612"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3612"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healingheartsofindy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3612"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}