It is an excellent idea to engage in premarital counseling at Healing Hearts of Indy before you walk down the aisle. After all, getting married is one of the most important decisions you will make in your lifetime. Going into such a commitment with your eyes wide open will help you have realistic expectations of married life. After premarital counseling you will understand why you have picked your spouse and where hang ups may occur in the future.
The Purpose of Relationships
You want to believe in the fairy tale of happily ever after and that you will be one of the 50% that doesn’t end up divorced. However, being one of the couples that makes it through life without getting divorced isn’t just based on luck. Insights gained from premarital counseling can help the two of you understand each other, leading to encouraging growth for you as an individual and for the relationship. The purpose of marriage is to encourage growth in each other by learning to meet each other’s needs and create space for the other person’s point of view.
Why Premarital Counseling
The beginning of relationships tends to feel like a fairy tale. It is easy to get wrapped up into that feeling and in doing so we often do not see our future spouse as clearly as we should. Premarital counseling will help you go into your marriage with your eyes wide open. We will show you the dynamics and patterns in your relationship that you may not be able to see. Going into a marriage knowing the good, bad, and ugly about your spouse is the best way to prevent or be prepared for future issues that may come up.
Insight into each other and ourselves is essential in the relationship journey. This is not easy and you need an excellent guide to help you get started on the right path. At Healing Hearts of Indy, our counselors are experienced and compassionate guides who can help you find that path instead of jumping in blindly. Call us today. We will help you find your happily ever after.