by Kathy | Oct 7, 2011 | Marriage
She thinks it’s cheating, he thinks it’s no big deal. Neither are right. The truth lies somewhere in the middle. Honestly speaking, porn creates a lot of clients for counselors. Since the widespread popularity of the internet, the availability and... by Kathy | Oct 1, 2011 | Marriage
She catches her reflection in the window. “How appropriate,” she thinks, “I’m barely visible.” “Where did I go? I used to have ideas, thoughts, beliefs, opinions, interests of my own. Where did my spark go? Where is my passion... by Kathy | Sep 12, 2011 | Uncategorized
Is your abandonment bigger than you are? Does it haunt you in the middle of the night? Does it cause you to dig through your spouse’s phone records & text messages? Do you freak out if your significant other is late coming home? Does it cause you bite the... 
by Kathy | Dec 13, 2009 | Affairs, Divorce, Intimacy, Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships
I am often met with clients who, in the throws of an affair, seem completely out of touch with reality – that’s enmeshment. Their spouse can see it, their friends and co-workers can see it, and their therapist tries desperately to help them see it. To...
