Matthew Perry: The Ugly Truth of Addiction
By: Chelsea
November 5, 2023

The One Where We Lost A Friend: Matthew Perry and the Ugly Truth of Addiction


The world mourns the loss of Matthew Perry, a beloved actor who brought laughter and joy to millions through his iconic role as Chandler Bing on “Friends” and in many other popular movies. While his talent and humor will forever be celebrated, his passing also highlights the harsh realities of addiction. While Matthew Perry charmed audiences with his wit and humor on-screen, his off-screen battle with addiction was a less visible but equally significant part of his life. In November 2022, Matthew released his memoir Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing that shined a light on how deeply he struggled with addiction. He battled with alcohol and prescription drug abuse and sought out treatment on multiple occasions.

“Addiction is like the Joker. It just wants to see the whole world burn,” (Perry, 2022).

Matthew Perry’s story is a reminder of the power and destructiveness of addiction. It underscores the need for greater awareness and understanding of this complex issue. Addiction does not care who you are, or where you have come from. Addiction is a disease that does not discriminate, affecting people from all walks of life.

 For a lot of people, they feel like they are able to hide their addiction. While talking about his addiction during the filming of Friends, Perry states, “You can track the trajectory of my addiction if you gauge my weight from season to season — when I’m carrying weight, it’s alcohol; when I’m skinny, it’s pills. When I have a goatee, it’s lots of pills,” (Perry, 2022).

Addiction is a relentless opponent that also causes a ripple effect. The journey to recovery is often filled with many challenges. The importance of a strong support system, including family, friends, and professional treatment is imperative for a successful recovery. Matthew Perry’s struggle was not an isolated one, and countless individuals continue to fight similar battles every day. Perry’s journey was marked by periods of recovery, relapse, and ongoing efforts to overcome the grip of addiction. In his memoir, he admits to having attended 6,000 AA meetings, gone to rehab 15 times, and been in detox 65 times.

“Addiction wakes up before you do, and it wants you alone,” (Perry, 2022).

The passing of Matthew Perry reminds us of the complexities of addiction and the importance of empathy, understanding, and support for those who battle this disease. By sharing his own experiences, he aimed to reduce the stigma surrounding addiction, encouraging others to seek support and treatment without fear of judgment. We must honor his memory by continuing the dialogue on addiction, reducing the stigma, and supporting those in need. Matthew Perry’s journey serves as an emotional reminder that, even in the face of adversity, we can find strength and resilience, and that no one is ever truly alone in their struggle.