by Kathy | Sep 23, 2011 | Marriage
People don’t get it. They come to couple’s counseling presumably to fix their relationship, but what they often are really after is an overhaul on their partner! Let’s face it. . When the engine of the relationship isn’t purring anymore, we are all too eager to... by Kathy | Sep 12, 2011 | Uncategorized
Is your abandonment bigger than you are? Does it haunt you in the middle of the night? Does it cause you to dig through your spouse’s phone records & text messages? Do you freak out if your significant other is late coming home? Does it cause you bite the... by Kathy | Sep 6, 2011 | Marriage
“I just can’t talk to you!!”, she screamed, and then she stalked out of the room and slammed the door. He knew that the rest of the day he would get the silent treatment. Has this or a similar scenario occurred in your home? This is an example of emotional... by Kathy | Aug 31, 2011 | Uncategorized
I am a prisoner. My cell is my fear – fear of saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, writing the wrong words, having the wrong opinion. What is it that makes a person live their entire life in a prison of fear? My prison is called perfection – I hate it and... by Kathy | Jun 18, 2010 | Marriage
Marriage counselors are constantly witness to couples in great conflict. The fights have increased and it seems that neither one of them can say or do anything without the other person taking offense to it. When the power of positive connection erodes, actions and...