by Kathy | Apr 28, 2013 | Abandonment, Relationships
Where do you find the cure for abandonment? People who suffer from abandonment experience such excruciating pain that they will do anything to make it go away. Usually, however, they spend most of their lives looking in all the wrong places. People with abandonment... by Javan | Mar 24, 2013 | Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Uncategorized
Marital, individual, couples or family therapy is designed to help you identify personal struggles and make healthy changes. Therapy is not just about a painful childhood. Many of my clients have what they call “a normal childhood.” Some of my clients have... by Javan | Aug 12, 2012 | Affairs, Marital Therapy
What do you do after you learn of affairs, cheating and lying? You are devastated, your spouse has cheated, he says he’s confused and doesn’t know what he wants. You feel more devastated. “What does he mean he doesn’t know what he wants and why... by Javan | Jun 24, 2012 | Codependent, Marital Therapy
Do you know someone who uses humor, gossiping, or backstabbing to address their inner anger towards someone else? Triangling like this is when someone is gossiping, judging, getting someone else to be angry with you towards a third party. Triangling is when a conflict... by Javan | Apr 29, 2012 | Family Counseling, Marital Therapy
Our marriage counseling is heavily based on the family systems paradigm. Many of our Indianapolis area married couples who are seeking counseling originally believe that marriage counseling begins with the marital issues. This is not true. To understand issues of...