by Kathy | Sep 16, 2012 | Marriage
Still wondering why you can’t get change to occur in your life? Maybe you’re not disgusted with yourself enough yet! Change will only occur when where you are at is more painful than getting where you need or want to go. It is not until you get truly and... by Kathy | Jun 10, 2012 | Marriage
Are you guilty of something I like to call I Feel Pain, What’d You Do? The idea is that if you’re feeling some kind of discomfort, someone must have done something to cause it! This is not a conscious thought, but more of an instant, somewhat irrational, knee jerk... by Kathy | May 20, 2012 | Abandonment, Addiction, Affairs, Communication, Marriage, Relationships
If you don’t know the difference between being a victim vs. validating your partner, you’re in trouble! Knowing the difference determines whether conflicts in your relationships will be put to rest or thrown back in the hopper to be argued again and again! Let me... by Christy Aloisio | Sep 23, 2011 | Codependent, Self-Help
We have finally come to the last characteristic of codependency, being passive in a relationship. Often feelings of being wronged or used; also called being “victimy” come with this trait. Feeling victimized in a relationship is the worst issue for a...