"So, what happens next, how does my abandonment work in my marriage?" What happens next is our defenses kick into high gear. As adults, in our relationships, we can feel enraged,...
“Truth about Abandonment!” Part II
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“Truth about Abandonment!”
Abandonmenthappens everyday in our lives......it happened in our past and it will happen again. Abandonment is the feeling that says "I did not get what I wanted or needed from...
“Is He Worth Therapy?”
Dealing with someone you love who feels distant, uncommitted, and is possibly having an affair can be gut wrenching and painful. The sting of betrayal, the lousy levels of...
You Never Know How Strong You Are
Reminder: I will be appearing on the show Unfaithful on the Oprah Winfrey Network March 17th at 9 pm. If you are in a marriage where one spouse has been unfaithful or if...
Who Do You Give Your Power To?
The Story “Not today, Sister!” These 3 words taught me a huge lesson once that will stick with me for life. I had worked for months planning an employee event at my job and I...
Is Your Abandonment Bigger Than You Are?
What Does Abandonment Look Like? Is your abandonment bigger than you are? Does it haunt you in the middle of the night? Maybe cause you to dig through your spouse's phone...
The Fantasy of Marriage
The Fantasy "A knight in shining armor is going to come and take me away from my family that doesn't care for me." "My wife will listen to me and meet my needs the way my family...
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