by Javan | Oct 24, 2014 | Abandonment, Addiction, Anxiety
Many addiction sufferers are unable to experience a full range of emotional health within their day to day lives. This also leads to another issue of being unable to process and resolve interpersonal issues with other people and within themselves. The ability to... by Javan | Sep 26, 2014 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Resentment is defined as “Bitter indignation at having been treated unfairly.” (Wikipedia, 2013) Feeling piqued and angry, indignation takes energy, is depleting, and taints the truth. This is usually what prompts the need for marriage counseling. Someone in the... by Javan | May 9, 2014 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
For the purpose of this blog, I’m discussing anxiousness that many people feel that takes away their ability to be present or stable during relationship conflict. Many people experience stress as a major factor that influences their lives. Stress is really about... 
by Javan | May 2, 2014 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
The Shame Pimp steals your time, hope, and self-respect. What makes you doubt your abilities? What steals your joy? Becoming disillusioned by shame creates over reactions and over reaching. Sometimes even hopelessness. Shame is another layer of emotional bindings. The... by Javan | Apr 13, 2014 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Falling in love and getting married…..it seems so happy. Planning the party, imagining living together, hoping to get every type of happiness is pretty normal for most couples. The expectations might be normal, but the reality is that people are complex. For...