by Javan | Oct 9, 2014 | Abandonment, Affairs, Marital Therapy, Uncategorized
Dealing with someone you love who feels distant, uncommitted, and is possibly having an affair can be gut wrenching and painful. The sting of betrayal, the lousy levels of intimacy, and the all around detachment is the last thing you thought you would end up with,... by Javan | Oct 3, 2014 | Addiction, Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Do you ever wonder how your spouse seemed one way when you first met but then turned out to be a totally different person after a few years?? At first, you can’t imagine how this sweet, lovely person could ever be hurtful or angry. Then, after a few years, you’re... 
by Javan | May 2, 2014 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
The Shame Pimp steals your time, hope, and self-respect. What makes you doubt your abilities? What steals your joy? Becoming disillusioned by shame creates over reactions and over reaching. Sometimes even hopelessness. Shame is another layer of emotional bindings. The... by Javan | Apr 13, 2014 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Falling in love and getting married…..it seems so happy. Planning the party, imagining living together, hoping to get every type of happiness is pretty normal for most couples. The expectations might be normal, but the reality is that people are complex. For... by Javan | Mar 21, 2014 | Abandonment, Affairs, Marriage
Abandonment issues are all over the world. Everyone experiences loss at some point or another in their lives. But the abandonment issues I am discussing today, on my video, and in this week’s blog are deeper and more pervasive than the stereotypical “I...