by Javan | Sep 29, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Are you guilty of obsessive love? There’s a quote in the Jerry McGuire movie that always irks me. It is, “You complete me.” One person cannot complete another….this is invasive, creepy, and overly involved. Obsessive love is controlling and... by Javan | Sep 18, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Many couples complain of lessening sexual intimacy. This usually is when couples are on the verge of separation or divorce. This is when a therapist is called into the picture. Beginning therapy can be daunting, intimidating, but there is hope after all the therapy... by Javan | Sep 15, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
The opportunity for personal growth shows itself everyday in our lives. As a therapist, I am blessed to work with people who desire a better relationship with themselves. We are called to help others, guide others, nurture, challenge and support. Our natural tendency... by Javan | Sep 6, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Finding out about an affair is devastating. As the fear of the ultimate abandonment comes to life, the storm of self-blame, insecurity, and self-doubt can spin into oblivion. Sometimes even a bit of temporary insanity can be expected. Affairs can spin a... by Javan | Aug 30, 2013 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Butters handles his loneliness and anxiety by sometimes eating my shoes. Heels and All! We had a scare recently where he had gotten into some old doggie meds. That was ruff!! In this picture, Butters is found guilty, expressing his remorse….. Although Butters is...