by Nancy | Oct 20, 2014 | Anger, Self-Help
Defensiveness is an excellent indicator to help find woundedness in the human heart. After all, we defend places that hurt, like a lion protecting a paw with a thorn in it. Dealing with the defensiveness of those we love can be just as dangerous as taking on that... 
by Javan | Oct 14, 2014 | Abandonment, Marital Therapy, Uncategorized
If your sense of who you are is defined by judgments or actions of others, then you are experiencing enmeshment. Over investment in others and less investment in yourself. Enmeshing can feel controlling and over bearing, which contributes to more cut-off and... by Nancy | Sep 30, 2014 | Anger, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Marriage, Relationships, Self-Help, Uncategorized
Oh boy oh boy oh boy oh boy. Be careful what you ask for and for SURE be careful what you pray for. If you have prayed or otherwise asked the Universe for the trait of patience, you are in for quite a ride! So patience, in my most humble opinion, is not something... by Javan | Mar 21, 2014 | Abandonment, Affairs, Marriage
Abandonment issues are all over the world. Everyone experiences loss at some point or another in their lives. But the abandonment issues I am discussing today, on my video, and in this week’s blog are deeper and more pervasive than the stereotypical “I... by Javan | Feb 6, 2014 | Family Counseling, Individual Therapy, Marital Therapy, Self-Help, Uncategorized
“We have communication issues.” I hear this often from couples regarding intimacy issues. So why is it so hard for people who love each other to just talk? First, we have to address what is happening before looking at what is NOT happening. What IS happening is a lack...
