by Kathy | Jan 22, 2012 | Marriage
What way did you learn to be loved? I’m not talking about having coffee brought to you in bed, or being greeted at the door when you get home. Nor am I talking about romantic date nights or lots of passionate sex, I’m talking about what you learned growing up about... by Kathy | Jan 16, 2012 | Marriage
There was a story of two men in ancient times of walled off cities. One man left his city and went on a trek seeking a better life. He arrived at a new city’s gates and asked the woman what the city was like. She asked him, “What was the city you came from like?” ... by Kathy | Jan 7, 2012 | Uncategorized
I had an immediate reaction to a study that my husband told me about. He read that ‘if you look a dog in the eye and speak kindly to it, it will behave better.’ My immediate reaction was, ‘That goes for people, too!’ I see a lot of couples in my practice as a... by Kathy | Dec 31, 2011 | Marriage, Uncategorized
If you could go back in time, say 10, 20, or 30 years, what would you say to yourself? You’ve lived through some rough stuff since then. You’ve gained wisdom from life experience that cannot be learned any better way than through living it. You know things now that... by Kathy | Dec 24, 2011 | Marriage, Uncategorized
The words stung and then floated off into the universe. I was only in my 20’s, attending a gathering of friends one night when a 4 year old said those seven powerful words to me. “Take what you’ve got and be thankful.” Wow! Really? It’s uncanny, sometimes, what...