Affairs, Cheaters, and Lies

What do you do after you learn of affairs, cheating and lying? You are devastated, your spouse has cheated, he says he’s confused and doesn’t know what he wants. You feel more devastated. “What does he mean he doesn’t know what he wants and why...

What Way Did You Learn To Be Loved?

What way did you learn to be loved?  I’m not talking about having coffee brought to you in bed, or being greeted at the door when you get home.  Nor am I talking about romantic date nights or lots of passionate sex, I’m talking about what you learned growing up about...

Wherever You Go, There You Are

There was a story of two men in ancient times of walled off cities.  One man left his city and went on a trek seeking a better life.  He arrived at a new city’s gates and asked the woman what the city was like.  She asked him, “What was the city you came from like?” ...

What Would You Say To Yourself?

If you could go back in time, say 10, 20, or 30 years, what would you say to yourself?  You’ve lived through some rough stuff since then.  You’ve gained wisdom from life experience that cannot be learned any better way than through living it.  You know things now that...