Taming The Abandonment Beast

Taming The Abandonment Beast

If you have abandonment, you know there is quite an art to taming the abandonment beast.  It is a force to be reckoned with, for sure, and needs to be tamed in order to have a happy, healthy, and stable life.   Where Abandonment Comes From   Abandonment...

Letting Go Of Resentment

Resentment is so incredibly common.  We all feel wronged by someone at some time or another, and where there is blame, over and over again, there is resentment.  Everyone walking the face of the earth is imperfect, so we are bound to be hurt by those we are in...

We Never Resolve Anything…

Are you the couple that avoids and distances when you don’t agree? Or, are you the raging couple? Do you fight constantly? In either situation, someone is trying to control the other and having a strong reaction, neither which is helpful or hopeful. Both reactions...

Defensiveness: Protecting The Heart

Defensiveness is an excellent indicator to help find woundedness in the human heart.  After all, we defend places that hurt, like a lion protecting a paw with a thorn in it.  Dealing with the defensiveness of those we love can be just as dangerous as taking on that...