Defensiveness: Protecting The Heart

Defensiveness is an excellent indicator to help find woundedness in the human heart.  After all, we defend places that hurt, like a lion protecting a paw with a thorn in it.  Dealing with the defensiveness of those we love can be just as dangerous as taking on that...

Are You In A No-Win Argument?

Nothing drives me crazier than being in a no-win argument.  What’s worse is when I don’t even know that I’m in one, but I keep arguing thinking I will get my point heard!  Here’s how to spot when you are in a no-win argument, and what to do next. When you are up...