by Christy Aloisio | Jul 13, 2014 | Uncategorized
One of the more frequent issues I see in my office is a spouse or even a couple together trying to decide if they should stay married or move on and proceed with a divorce. Many times that is what brings them to me, is to get a third party opinion or direction of what... by Christy Aloisio | Jun 22, 2014 | Affairs
It seems to happen to most couples at some time or another in a marriage. The distance or “roommate” bug comes up and bites you. Busy lives get in the way of spending time together, talking, connecting, and being intimate. Kids, sports, activities, jobs,... by Christy Aloisio | Sep 12, 2012 | Uncategorized
Most people would be a little surprised to hear a podcast about being to close in a marriage (see Hot Mess Radio’s podcast on Enmeshment at the end of this blog!). What’s wrong with that? Close is good! Believe it or not, being too close in a marriage can... by Christy Aloisio | Apr 19, 2012 | Uncategorized
I have many clients who enjoy playing golf. I often hear the small talk of, “I am playing golf with my buddies tomorrow,” or “This weather is so great, I think I need to fit in some golf.” But one client this week blew me out of the water with his golf analogy.... by Christy Aloisio | Apr 15, 2012 | Anger, Uncategorized
Marriage counseling is not really about fixing marriage. Sounds weird, yes I know. But marriage counseling is about fixing you. You are the only one that you can control, and you are the only one you can change. If two people come into my office wanting to fix their...