How To Diffuse An Argument

Ever wonder how to keep an argument from escalating into an all out brawl? There is one simple tip that can, if used properly, diffuse an argument and get you and your partner talking instead of fighting! The tip? One word. . . . Validation.  If you read my articles,...

How To End An Argument

The tension is so thick you could cut it with a knife.  You  may not even be speaking to (or even looking at) one another, so how do you go about ending an argument without losing your dignity? It all comes down to pride.  Most of us have way too much pride and that...

Can You Stay Connected When You Are Reactive?

We talk a lot about trying to stay non-reactive, but nobody can do it 100%.  If you aren’t supposed to get reactive (yelling, defensive, attacking, etc.) and it is not healthy to cut-off (total disconnect emotionally or physically) from the person you are reactive to,...