Beating the Winter Blues

Beating the Winter Blues

It’s easy to get the winter blues this time of year.  It can be hard—the holiday season brings varied reactions and some very mixed feelings for a lot of people. Wintertime is tough: it’s gray, it’s cold; it begins to feel smarter to hibernate until Spring....
Living In Reactivity

Living In Reactivity

Have you ever been in a relationship living in reactivity, feeling like a screech owl? Some people believe no one can ‘make’ us feel anything. They believe it is all up to us. However, it takes work to understand what triggers our emotional reactions. Before we do...
Applying the Five Love Languages

Applying the Five Love Languages

Most clients I have met have heard of The Five Love Languages (by Dr. Gary Chapman), and many even know their own preferences. That being said, some struggle to apply this knowledge in day to day life. It is common for us to tend toward caring for others in the same...
How To Use Your “Wise Mind”

How To Use Your “Wise Mind”

Learning how to use your “wise mind” can be a lifesaver in having healthy, stable relationships that thrive instead of just survive. The human brain has two sides, each of which has an important function. Depending on one’s personality and extenuating...