Is Toxic Positivity Causing A Problem?

Is Toxic Positivity Causing A Problem?

Have you ever heard of toxic positivity?  A good example is when you’ve opened up to someone about your feelings or what you have been struggling with and they responded back with some type of an “at least” statement? “Well, at least, you still have ___.” “At...
Blame

Blame

Blame Is Ugly The Blame Game is a trap to keep you in a lower position in life. Blaming says, “there’s nothing I can do about how I feel or respond to this scenario. I have no control, so I’m a victim.” It also perpetuates the “she or he is the bad guy, villain, and...

The Power of Saying What We NEED

What you need The power of saying what we need in a relationship is absolutely vital to it’s success.  Have you ever had a really bad day? A day where it seemed like nothing went the way it should?  When you get home, all you want is to be embraced by your...

Cruelty Masked As Honesty

Has this ever happened to you? Someone offered “helpful advice” that felt like an insult? An employer gives you a performance evaluation, but you left feeling like they want you to be a different person? Someone made a cutting remark, was critical, or insulted you,...